Judge Your Dear One

I know you have many friends. Among them some are referred as dear one. You share many things with them, you revealed many secrecy with them because he/she is your dear one.

Your dear friend can be Girl or Boy or Both. But a universally accepted fact is that, opposite sex are much closer to you in every aspect, when you accepted him/her as your dear one. It does not mean you are in relation or love or something like that. But still, you have a good relation with them, you can laugh with them and you can cry with them. When you are not near, they say ‘I Miss You’.  You too reply saying, ‘I Miss You too’.

No matter he/she is your best friend or close friend or your GF/BF or person whom you care. But real complication arise when you feel, you are being used, you are being played, you are being dominated or something like that. 

When complication arise, its very very tough to go back, since you have already passed a long way. But not to worry, you can judge or you can test your dear one, BF/GF or person whom you care. So that, in future you don’t have to regret at your decision. Here’s the some simple step to judge your dear one. These step are based on phone call:

Simple experiment. Stop calling your, DearOne/BF/GF/person you care. The time they take to call back, tells you a lot.

If they call: within 1 day - all is good, in 3days- playing games, 5days - not interested in you, 7days-there's someone else.

Basically 24hr drop dead rule. If they don't call to check within that time, trouble. These days, NO excuse not to call.

If they call late, don't whine/lash out. respond in hmm, uh-hun types. Say you are busy, bye.Repeat until 24h freq restored.

guys,DON'T keep telling her how much you miss her if she plays you. Find someone else. Prefer her ugly best friend, to rub it in.

Disclaimer: Use these tests ONLY if you smell something wrong. Don't self-destruct by both testing each other.

These all above mentioned steps are based on Famous Indian Writer Chetan Bhagat’s tweets. But some says, “If you judge People, You have no time to Love Them”. he he he… :P

Don’t know if advice  works or not, but will preserve your self-esteem. Loving yourself is more important  than loving others. And its not applicable to those who are dedicated only to one man/women as their DearOne/BF/GF/person you care.

5 comments :

  1. haha...did it work on you????

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  2. Really nice tips.... :) Some time it can work as well...but what I feel at times is... The thing has two sides...the friendship, love is between two people...everything...it cannot be from one side...Basically if you are doing the trick...who knows same trick he or she is doing....
    So, it is really funny to work on the above tips just if we take it as a fun making thing....or else if it is taken seriously then who knows these tips can bring serious complication in between a good and established friendship.

    P.S. All the things must be judged by looking at the both sides...

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  3. @Eternal, Yes I accept the fact that "All the things must be judged by looking at the both sides". But what should be down when someone goes beyond the limit in real sense. Apply the above trick, when you feel, you are being used, you are being played, you are being dominated or something like that. Its about feelings, How you treat with that one is a serious issue. You may think about this trick when you feel the situation.

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  4. haha...did it work on you????

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  5. Really nice tips.... :) Some time it can work as well...but what I feel at times is... The thing has two sides...the friendship, love is between two people...everything...it cannot be from one side...Basically if you are doing the trick...who knows same trick he or she is doing....
    So, it is really funny to work on the above tips just if we take it as a fun making thing....or else if it is taken seriously then who knows these tips can bring serious complication in between a good and established friendship.

    P.S. All the things must be judged by looking at the both sides...

    ReplyDelete